She seems confused, which for you, is very good. She wants to be persued, yet wants to also be in control. I would LIGHTLY try a LL comment. Only ONE, and see what happens. DO NOT smother her with compliments that will only sound like you want her to come home. Give it a try. At this point, you have nothing to lose. You're already headed toward D, so what's the worst that could happen. Also, make sure when you do the kid exchange that she see's some sort of 180. Show up in your workout clothes like you're going to the gym if that's different for you. Or be wearing something spiffy like you're going to see a play. Get the idea? Make her wonder a bit about what you're up to.
When I saw the title to your thread, I thought it said, "HURLING tostada". I came to see why you're throwing food. I must be hungry.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
