Lost- you are getting some real clarity! what you have been doing is working- thats all there is to it. DR, DB and all the archived threads really helped me..i read wise advice from DB'ers all the time and nuggets of wisdom under that too...it just reinforces this method of letting go, detaching, listening, validating, etc.

you are already doing it- and now is the patience part...real patience...i think you have the GAL down- and that is so helpful!

whats the latest with you and your H?

(((LOST!))))

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