the shift

[holdingon]

LL,
How do you deal with the day to day when nothing seems to be happening?

I am trying to show that I can get on with my life. Does that show him that I am okay with how things are and prevent him from moving forward? And if I bring up MC now, will that show him that I am still waiting for him? It seems there is no good answer.

He knows that I think we should go to MC. Before I knew about OW he would say he did not want to go, because he did not want to tell me about the A. Now that I know, he is still with her as far as I know.

He is calling every night and asking what are we doing. I am getting further into the hole of depression. I find it hard to get up and get moving. I think about the sitch all the time. I don't know how long I can go on.

I pray all the time and the only message I receive is to wait and be patient.

My H has only been gone about a month. I know yours was gone 6 months. He has been having an A for six months. Any help you could give me would be great.

My thread is on MLC.

Sorry to hijack your thread.