Quote: "I want my h to ask me to once again wear the rings that he put on my hand the day I became his wife"
LL,
Why don't you ask him?
I've already told him several times that I'd like him to ask me! he should ask me...it would mean nothing if I ask him if I can put them on..duh of course he'd say "I never told you to take them off in the first place"
Quote: I know you've read all the books, and have done all the studying, so put those principals to work. I'm reading DR pages 217 - 218. You need to read them! Quote: --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Even if the pace of reconciliation is slower than you would like, remember how far you have come. Don't screw things up now. Take a deep breath and remind yourself you are moving in the right direction. BE PROUD OF YOURSELF!
every once in a while (ok sometimes more often than that) I just get a little tired...this crap aint easy ya know!
as far as the ow...I don't concentrate on her...but there are still some issues with the fact that he had an a that haven't been resolved yet....like...h lays part of the responsibility for his having an a on me...sorry I wont accept responsiblity for HIS actions. h now also blames stress for his discression (uhm hello was I not under stress..I was raising a young child (who wasn't even two when h started his a) preg with dd trying to establish a new home (I did all the packing and unpacking myself heck even moved by myself h just went to work and then came here) I didn't go have an a did I...sheesh.
and as far as h not wanting to talk about her....and if he did it would hurt me...no tony what would hurt me is to find out that he's been lying all along about what that r was...he still says nothing physical..won't even admit to a kiss (how pathetic for them if they didn't even kiss) at this point it would hurt me more to know that he's been lying to me than to find out that he had been physical with her.
