Quote: Would it feel better or worse if you really were separated? If you were doing all the stuff with the kids and the house by youself...and wondering "what is my H doing right now"?
I don't know yet, your sitch is different because your H didn't move out and my H hasn't come home yet.
talista,
my h did move out...for more than six months...and ya know what? I did just fine here by myself..the kids were in bed when they were supposed to be in bed the house was cleaned and all was well..no one was using MY tootbrush and screwing up the bristles, no one was pretending that they would do their own laundry only to just plop their hamper on the bathroom floor as if that's doing your own laundry. I didn't expect him home at all so when 5 or 6 rolled around there was no one to cook dinner for besides the kids and myself no one comming home late didn't have to wonder when he'd get here well except for on his visiting nights (for the kids) but those nights for the most part he was always promt. when we were seperated I was free to leave all day everysunday while he visitited the kids..now I have to stay around or take at least dd with me wherever I have to go.
I suppose it doesn't really matter.
I'm tired...h was noisy this am in getting ready to leave or perhaps it's just too hot and therefore I'm not sleeping as well so his russling around wakes me easier. oh and also because it's hot the windows are open and son woke crying to hear daddys truck leaving...nice to be woken to crying whining pouting 4 year old...what a reminder of last summer grrrrrr!
I know that once I wake up and get the day going things will look better...right now I'm just not interested.
