Originally Posted By: lovemyguy

He said "Oh, I was joking." Yeah, right. It sure didn't sound that way when he said it on Wed night. And what kind of joke is that anyway?

Maybe he meant to say he said it in anger... because "I was joking" is INSANE.
Originally Posted By: lovemyguy

I don't know which way to go--to keep my wounded pride/anger to myself and stay in the friendly, cooperative, chatty zone with H, or to do more of the LRT approach and only interact with him when I have to.

Accepting what is happening to our lives as we knew them is a very difficult process. I'm better some days than others. A DB friend sent me a link to an article I found helpful. Maybe you'll find it helpful as well:

http://home.att.net/~velvet-hammer/makeitwork.html

Thinking of you, lmg.

Last edited by sgctxok; 07/30/08 04:04 AM.

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence