Mulesqb - Still alive and Kickin'

[mulesqb]

Bill - Yes I did tell her that she had 4 people in the house that love her more than anything. I also mentioned to her a few times that I care so much about her. I also told her I would continue to fight for my marriage and my family. I didn't want to overdue it. I kept saying that I was very concerned for her and that it was very important to me that she find happiness.

Taking her out of her "comfort zone" is exactly what my IC said last night - you sure you weren't there in the next room?? And that's exactly right - no progress at all, just existing - time to try something different.

There has been very little physical touch. She held my hand when we came home from the kennel when we bought the dog - she has tapped me a few times when we were joking around when the neighbor's are over (which again is getting to be too much time).

I don't plan on pressuring now and thanks for bringing that up. What do you think about me sleeping in the guest room tonight.

I also told her that in the current state of affairs that I didn't feel right going to Lake George. She said that she knew I would hold that over her head. I said that I would love to go away with her - but if we really aren't a couple - why the hell are we taking a couple's weekend - it doesn't make sense.

I will definitely give her a lot of space starting tonight.