Stop calling her family. Blood is thicker than water. You are not helping yourself with them. You are not going to convince or sway her family or friends to your way of thinking, and it makes you look desperate.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK