LL, I'm sorry to see that your at a real dip on the roller coaster right now.
All the little irritating stuff that comes up when you live with someone on a daily basis.
Can I ask you, is all that stuff always magnified when you are still in the healing process?
And does it ever feel like all the little routine stuff brings you comfort and a sense of normalacy after all you've been through?
Would it feel better or worse if you really were separated? If you were doing all the stuff with the kids and the house by youself...and wondering "what is my H doing right now"?
I don't know yet, your sitch is different because your H didn't move out and my H hasn't come home yet.
I totally understand about the sledgehammer thing.
