I hate to admit, but part of me does because I'm waiting for her to have a shred of honesty with me ...
Yeah but isn't the truth that you are the one who has problems with honesty? That while you have been accusing her of cheating, not only now, but during the marriage, even though there has never been any evidence, you have been and during the marriage were reading her emails and phone bills?
Even today...
"I texted him yesterday to ask if Wed. worked for us to meet for me to give to him and he didn't respond (unlike him). I saw his feelings to W about the sitch. He thinks I'm "up to something""
This is why I rarely post because I just keeping posting the same thing. You are the only one you can work on and you really don't care about doing that, just about controlling her.
Tink
I'll put this bluntly. I was cheated on twice by my XW. I almost died because of the pain and suffering I endured while she dragged me through "i'm not sure what I want to do." Turns out, she was just buying time while she made plans to buy a house and move in with my former friend.
I refuse to be lead again like that. Especially with the suspect of another person entering the picture.
And yes, I am the one who has a problem with honesty.....getting it. I've given her, and will continue to give her the opportunity to be honest about what is going on, but she won't because she is afraid of my reaction.
YES BUT YOU WERE NOT CHEATED ON BY THIS WIFE. And by refusing to not be fooled again you are treating this wife as a cheater and your snooping, spying and accusing is pushing her away and now out of your life step by step. You are creating a repeat situation of the first wife, even though this one has not cheated you are still creating the same scenario and you are ruining this marriage.
Tink P.S. What would happen if this wife, somehow, found out that you have been and are spying on her emails?
