I'm so sorry you're having to deal with a haughty pastor at this time. What a schmuck. Why don't you say "Just tell them I'm leaving to try to focus on keeping my family together in the face of my husband's adultery. Now, that's the TRUTH, but then again you always seem to do whatever you want to do anyway, so spin it however you wish, it's your flock," and let him spin that however he wants to!
