I dont know if there is anything you can do to sway your W. Only time will change her thinking. And if the day comes that she realizes that your lives were meant to be spent with each other, it should be up to her to convince you. The thing you dont want is for you to pressure her try again if she is not 100% ready. You dont want her back if she is only going to give up again. That is how I am thinking in regards to my W.
December is a long way off still. I so hope that she comes to some awakening, but if not, you need to be ready for being divorced.
