I think the gift was a great thing. You are not a failure, although I can understand the feeling. I have that one too, and have had to question whether or not I am hanging on because I love my H, or because it is yet one more relationship I have failed at. It is because I love him.
Remember that this is a roller coaster, and we are sometimes at the top of the hill, with no where to go but down. It will start moving again, and you will be going up. Sometimes these WAS's just don't know how to handle the gesture. It has nothing to do with you.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
