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yeah, that's the best way to respond. short and to the point. MY W and i still have the same convo ovr and over again. I'm not sure why...almsot as if one of us needs to see things from the others point of view...

it's ok. just don't initiate. SHe's in control. let her be. If she wants to talk, let her. validate. etc. If she doesn't, don't force it. Can't force it. WIll drive her further away....

ME:32 WAW:31
D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2
Together: 13 M:6
Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08
Sep legally: 6/18/08

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