Nope, it just isn't happening. The woman is unreasonable.
I tried to make a schedule with her. We got to today. She works 4 till close. She said she would drop the kids off at her mothers. I said I would pick them up after 5. She said that wasn't early enough. My commute to her parents is 45 minutes from work. What time does she want me to leave work? Then with the back and forth talk she provokes me into anger. Because she is arguing with me over a time. Puts me on speaker phone on a cell phone. So I have to talk louder and I can't here what she is saying. One of my pet peeves is repeating myself. I end up calling her a name, and she hangs up on me. She text me I'll call you later when you are calmer.

Then I get stupid and text her friend the pig girl. THANKS.

Next thing I know I'm in a text war with the pig girl.

She spewed so much venom on me it wasn't even funny. Swearing like a trucker. I didn't return the insults. I just said I'm asking you for help. Help my family.

She spewed some more. You are a F'n alcholoic abuser and you need to stay away from her.

I say I'm the battered husband. Where you here?

More venom from pig girl. She is a text marathonist. I think she has a keyboard on her phone because she can text me a paragraph before I reply with one sentence.

Here is the problem. I think this girl is worse than another man. She is the other man. She talks like a man. She has the claws in my wife so deep it isn't even funny. I asked her to leave my wife alone and help my family. She always called me to fix her computer. She has continually made it worse for my wife and I.

This girls dad was an alcoholic. I believe that since my wife has expressed that I am one constantly to her she can only see what her father was.

The other bad part during the text marathon is that my wife texted me and asked me to stop texting her friend that she could not take it anymore and I was pushing her away even more. She said leave her alone she has to work tomorrow. It was only 10 PM. I know this girl stays up late, because she told me. Another double standard from my wife.

Now really. The only thing I texted to pig girl was thanks. Then all the bull crap started. She must have complained to my wife that I was texting to her.

Again I told my wife that I would fight through hell for her.

Is this an emotional affair? I really believe it has my wife trapped. I mean between the bull crap with her sister and this friend I do not have a chance.

I even called her parents. They of course will not talk to me. I just left them a message. I said I'm tired of your daughters selfish behavior and constantly being unreasonable. I'm trying to make a simple schedule with her and she fights with me. I said someone needs to talk to her and straighten her out.

I even called her cousin. The cousin she used to walk with all the time. She is the same age as my wife, has a good eduction and is a reasonable woman. I just left her a voice mail. Please help.

Before all this. I talked to her Aunt for an hour. My Aunt just says Phil I know how your wife is, she is very difficult to deal with and asks just like her mother.

The woman will not even talk to me about a simple schedule. I said I would like to schedule out the week so we don't have to deal with it all week. You see she does not want to do that. Because she wants an open schedule so that she can do what she wants. If something comes up then she can just dump the kids on me.

The woman is totally unreasonable. Her friend even worse.

I finally told my wife I didn't want her back. In my thoughts, I do not deserve to be treated this way. I do not deserve to be provoked, again and again. I do not deserve to have my kids go through this selfish behavior of hers.

I'm trying to do everything right. But I keep doing things wrong. There is nothing I can do right. Everything I do is wrong to her.

My wife just wants to be my enemy. She said she wanted to get along but she is giving me a hard time about an hour and a half. There is no compromise and this was just a one day event.

I could really use some help here from above.

I have been so depressed for two months, and I feel like I finally got out of it. After the bomb I was depressed for four months. Got out of it, and went back in after she left.

Lord release my wives friends grip on her. Bring peace to that womans hurt. Allow her friendship to guide her to you.

Divorce isn't even the issue. It is the unwillingness to make things work for the children. I think I may be forced into doing things I do not want to do. File for full custody of the children and fight her tooth and nail through the court system.

Everything that I want to avoid. How long is this punishment going to last for. At least if it is in the court system she can argue with the judge and lawyers and I can just sit there and be calm.

This is everything I do not want to do. I want to reconcile.

I don't even want to reconcile. I just want to be civil. I want to give these kids the best life possible. She can't even speak to me about one day.

I think she doesn't want a schedule because she wants to act like an irresponsible teen.