I feel like I am so stupid. I said it all above that. I knew that he would not know how to handle a birthday present but because I wanted to give it to him so badly that is why I did it. I didn't think longer term and I should have done. On Friday when we had text dialogue it was because it was on a neutral subject such as asking for his address and that opened him up a little. This will just have the effect of closing him up and deep down I knew that.
I am wondering if I should send a message apologising but then again I don't want to ruin his birthday even more. Maybe it is best to leave it and chalk it up to experience. I suppose I know for the future, stick to neutral subjects.
