I'd love it now if my biggest problem was what H was up to in SL. Now it's RL. Believe me, I don't mean to minimize the pain you are feeling now. It's absolutely horrible. But it is in your best interests to BE THE BETTER PERSON and not stoop to his level of lying, cheating and sneaking around, and that includes snooping. Be Teflon--don't let his mud stick to you!
I know, I keep telling myself, "it's not real, it's not real, it's not real" which helps sometimes but not all the time. I think I'm (a) worried it will turn real, mostly because there is phone conversations happening as well as stuff I've read about eventually getting together and being soulmates, etc. and (b) the whole emotional component of it, especially if they are "married" in SL...
But it is messed up. And I just keep repeating that to myself. And there is a part of me that says sometimes "can I be with someone so messed up?" But it's like so many others say here: "It's an alien." And it is. Because I think I know my H better than anyone -- including his parents -- and this is totally not him. At all. Or it least, it's not who I thought he was.
Hope your day is going well.
M 39 H 34 D 6 M almost 8 years T 11 years Bomb: 6/5/08
