Tdad...i so want toooooooo believe you.....i really do....it's so difficult to sometimes.....i can't explain it.....
Please don't take offense...........it's just difficult, because those words aren'tcoming out of her mouth..... i'm an auditory learned sometimes too...LOL....
You don't have to explain...I already know. I don't take offense from anything on this board....I took the worse the person I love the most had to give....anything on here is a piece of cake.....lol
Neil,
I think you are doing good. Your biggest problems are confidence (which you know and are improving on very well) and you are scared, scared that your best DB efforts and otherwise will not be good enough.
A mind game that helps out with this is pretend you don't have a R anymore. I believe most people call this dropping the rope. If you think about it, it is kind of a good thing because you don't want that relationship anyways. Pretend you have someone you are very interested in, that has just got out of a bad R. Think about how you got together to begin with. If you "drop the rope" then there is no longer anything to be scared of ....there is only hope of a new beginning.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
