Childish hotel and bed story - When H and I traveled together after I first found out about ow we slept in the same room same bed at the hotel(and at home). Then H started sleeping on the couch at home but we still shared a bed when we traveled. Then H took over booking the rooms and made sure there were always 2 beds, he would wait until I picked one, then he would go to sleep in the other. I laid awake all night fuming mad! I turned the tv on one night when I couldn't sleep. We were in a hotel in CO. H got upset because then he couldn't sleep. He packed up his stuff and was leaving me that night. I didn't stop him, but I did say I thought it was pretty silly to walk out in the middle on the country with no way back home. (I had the truck keys. ) He stayed. On the way home we stayed overnight with friends, in the same room in the same bed and H wanted sex. Huh? Then another 15 hours drive home in silence.
After that when I booked a room I booked 1 bed. When H checked in he changed my reservation to 2 beds. When he went to sleep in the other bed I left the room and went to sleep in the truck.
The next time I booked a reservation it was one king bed. I checked in and made sure it stayed one bed. When we walked in the room H walked back out and slept in the truck - or so he says, I never checked and he looked pretty fresh the next morning for sleeping in a truck!
We haven't traveled together for a couple of years now. I don't know if we would still play the same stupid games but I suspect we would.
That's a long story to make my point of - make sure you are clear about how many rooms and how many beds and who sleeps where before you get to the hotel.
BTW - is this a pleasure only trip or sort of a business trip? Why would you choose to vacation with a man you won't live with?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
) He stayed. On the way home we stayed overnight with friends, in the same room in the same bed and H wanted sex. Huh? Then another 15 hours drive home in silence.
