LL I just found your thread a few days ago....and I am so, so very happy for you. YOur journey is so incredibly inspiring....especially for me right now. I feel as though I am in the early stages of this process and today on my way home from working at the hospital....I decided I was angry at H again....just because....he put us into this mess and I feel as though I'm doing 90% of the work through DB & DR steps. We did have some progress on our family vacation (and thanks for helping me with my posting). But, tonight...he called and left a message that he is hanging with "co-workers" for a beer and will be home 8:30 or so. He said he has some out of town people....I should believe him, but still go into the doubt phase in my head. Anyhow....I'm going to read and re-read your journey. I am soooooo impressed with your results. I really hope one day within a reasonable timeframe, I can feel the same you do today. I truly like the part about the changes that had to occur to bring you two back on track. I am finally admitting that we've had issues...that I put under the rug or didn't realize were really building for us. Maybe I have a higher tolerance for frustration in our relationship. Enough rambling. Thanks for your continued insights and keep on rockin!!!! Mooka
