"I heard that too, I bet that everyone here has. What is really the case is that they don't feel they can talk to us "now," and rightly so, how do you talk to a spouse about affairs, doubts, or wanting to end the marriage? Uh, that'd be tough for anyone. Even when my ex did talk, it was censored, and skewed. Skewed like being nasty until you finally withdraw, and then making overtures so they can claim to be rejected."

Ya come to think of it when we talked...I did most of the talking
Her answers were like multiple choice...
A yes you did
B its not you its me
C I haven't loved you for years
D all the above


More later...

Gman
Me 40
W 30
kids
B 11
B 10
D 8
Been here off and on since 06.
PA Confirmed Dec 08..
With God, anything is possible.
Do or do not there is no try.
Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...