"He still says he loves me. He is conflicted. He is confused, yes. And he is still at the house. He still sees me and talks to me and kisses and hugs me every day. I have to be thankful for those things.'

Goodness, Wifey, these are fantastic signs of love and affection. IMHO, you REALLY have a big chance here to save your marraige. My H says he doesn't need the affection, and doesn't give it unless I initiate it. So, you're way ahead of the game. Keep it up. You're doing fabulously.

cheers,
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Last edited by Suzanne1; 07/22/08 12:27 PM.