UD,

You can't MAKE things happen the way you'd like them to happen.

Of course, you're always free to try anyway, which apparently you did. Just don't be surprised when the outcome is just plain ugly.

Since when was this situation about YOU? Did YOU initiate the separation? Are YOU the one who wanted out?

For crying out loud dude, you are slowly but surely blowing your relationship up with your impatience, insecurity, and fear.

And no, past relationship problems are NOT an acceptable excuse for utter stupidity.


No, I don't think she's without fault, and I don't think that her actions are fine.


But that's the whole point. SHE has the issues. SHE drives the bus here on timing and content.


But you refuse the allow her that opportunity.


Showing that in the end you are more concerned about yourself than you are her.


Too bad.



Blessings,

bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."