Is W in MLC

[yenko69]

I did go over there yesterday to watch D11. Wife was still sleeping when I got there so I went out and did some yard work. W came out after awhile and looked at me kind of puzzled. Talked a bit and she left for work.

After I got done, I went into the house and picked up a few things. W came home early sick. She said that when I came over to watch D11 I did not need to clean, I told her I know. She asked if D11 told her I called and I said no. She was going to stop by the store and had called to know if I needed anything.

She did ask if I could go to the store later and pick up some things she forgot, not really a problem. I was going to pickup my niece and nephew from the babysitters and bring them back until my SIL or BIl picked them up.

When I got back, watched neice/ nephew until my BIL picked them up. I had D11 start to get some things ready and my got up. We talked for a little bit and told her I was going to take D11 overnight and to call if she needed anything. She started talking about her cell messing up on her and wanted to know when we could change our contract. Maybe go with a new service provider. W talked about doing this together and being on the same plan.

Then she said that she is not confused. That she wanted me to have a happy life but it was not going to be with her. I told her I know that and understood. She said that was a first and a complete 360 (180) for me. She also said that counselor advised we not be friends after this since C thinks it would be to hard on me. I will cross that bridge when I come to it. I told her I had some things to talk about with her also. She asked if I had come to some conclusions and I said yes and we could talk tomorrow when she feels better. W said that she may be making the biggest mistake of her life, but needed to move on and find herself.

When I got back her she called and said she tried to reach me earlier (my cell died). She said I could have taken her car since she was not going anywhere. Made more small talk. She asked if I could call before I came back and maybe pick her up something if she still felt bad. I told her that would be fine. She said thank you and I told her bye and talk to her tomorrow.

I still am thankful that we are both mature enough to be friendly, respectful and polite with each other. We have been getting along a lot better then we have for quite a while. I do wonder if we would be just better off as friends than as a married couple.