all I wanted from my then H (now stbxH) when I heard the news about my dad, was him to come home, hug me and whisper to me, that we are going through this together. There weren't many other things that would have felt good at that time. It was all I wanted. I guess what I am trying to say is you are doing the right thing and you should tell her you are there for her. I hope your issue turns out to be nothing. Thinking of you K
