i guess i am looking for the one or two things that would make her say to herself "maybe i should hold off on the separation papers to see what he's up to..." but then again, maybe if that were the case, I would have had the papers a month ago ? she isn't sure about all this ? if she has feelings for me they're deep down in a trench somewhere \:\( keep reading though.....

2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF

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