The continuing story of the Lake Erie Shore

[Continuing]

Doesn't that suck how you can be so full of confidence one day (hour, minute) and be down in the dumps the next?

...the whole rollercoaster thing...

You get alot of advice from people and I certainly can't add anything to what they say.

But I thought I'd encourage you; its ok to feel this way. You are going through some major upheavel, your relationship is in turmoil and I'm sure you are learning things about yourself that are painful, freightening, and confusing.

Time is on our side. If we want to grow we must suffer this, but dammit, no one said you needed to be a spartan about it.

After I said I didn't have much advice, I'll tell you something that I am working on: be in the present, not the past, or the future. Be quite, be brave, and sit with what you are feeling. If you can learn to be comfortable with and understand where these negative feelings come from, they will not be an issue anymore. They will not go away but your perception of them will have changed.

but the good news is that tomorrow is a new day...

B