Ok, I found a website that had an article on passive/aggressive behavior. I read this every day to help me move pass my feelings for STBXH. My heart so doesnt want my M to end but my head keeps telling me that it needs to. I wanted to post the site here so others can be comforted that it may not be such a bad ending after all.....

http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/Pass_Agg.htm


All I have to say is that I refuse to be a chair any longer.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1599046&page=0&fpart=1