Thanks distressed, lodo & forrest I'm lucky to have such ardent posters asking and pointing out things I don't see in the moment.
Not sure they are really 2x4's .. just shining lights on things in my sitch for me.
I need time to think about what the light shows and how that fits for me, in a way that I can post a reply.
Forrest thanks for the new format.. it made a difference for me I appreciate you being thoughtful enough to do it different.
Lodo.. devil's advocate? Interesting picture you paint.. me not getting what I want, but not giving up.. yeah, been told before I'm stubborn. Need to think about the rest.
Distressed: I agree he is not hearing me in a way that I think I'm saying things. That's why the communication counseling and why I'm continuing my IC.
night everyone Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.