I have been thinking of this alot. If I can keep everything current, I don't think he would be able to file since the guidlines are so much stricter. I will have to call in another opinion on Wednesday because my L doesn't do bankruptcy and neither does H's L.
I have been reading on the websites and it does look like he would have to be behind on bills etc. It's not that I don't care, I do. I have been so tangled up in the emotional fight, it is difficult to suddenly switch gears.
Tomorrow I am taking a break from the drama and celebrate my Dad's birthday.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory