W just called abit ago, new drama on top of old. Seems W and D11 stopped at the Ice Cream store and D11 said there's Grandpa's car (my dad). W said I doubt it there are alot of those cars around. W sends D11 into the Ice Cream store so she could get a cone, well low and behold it was my dad and he totally ignored W when he came out.
D11 comes out about in tears, W asked what was wrong? D11 said I told you it was Grandpa and he didn't even talk to me and I was lookin right at him. D11 says it felt like I was invisible.
W starts gettin loud saying I don't care how they treat me, but their own Granddaughter WTF is up with that? I said I don't know. W & my rents have had their ups & downs in the past. I have always backed my W when it came to these kinda things. Now it's one thing to snub my W but to ignore your Ganddaughter is just wrong. So I got pissed and said that is BS. W says what have you told them about the sitch. I said all I told them was that you were moving out and that we both had done somethings to get it to this point period.
W said this on top of everything else it's not worth it. I went outside of the box and said wait a minute, this is not about our R, my parents have nothing to do with us, and I will be damned if I allow my Daughter to get disrespected like that let alone my W. She said I didn't call to get you upset I just wanted you to know what happened, I said I appreciate that but this goes beyond acceptableness it's 1 thing if it were you I know you can handle yourself and will speak your mind but I don't give a damn who it is noone will do that to my daughter.
I said I will handle this, W said maybe it would be best just to let it lie all your dad will do is deny it anyway.
I am torn on this, if I do something about it then I disrespect W's wishes if I don't then I feel like I didn't stand up for my Daughter...
