Losing, in a curious way, is winning.

[Forrest Gump]

5 days ago- C for communication, big blow up after getting back. Told H. I would not play his 'games'.

So.. you went to the C.. for communication training.. and came home with a bucket full of crap. It happens. That "person" sitting in that chair.. with the degree.. expects both of you to get it. The C was showing you something.. you both get a F.

4 days ago- Went dark, minimal contact only for the kids, GAL

So... the question becomes.. is this not a "repeat" of what has happened before? At some point.. this tool worked. Stop using it.. this tool does not smell like cheese.

3 days ago- GAL continued, told H. I can't control his choices, & he has to live with the consequences. He talked, I listened (nothing new there) but SC's bubble analogy made all the difference for me. Forgave H for his lies from 5 days ago, asked him to quit pushing me and this tenuous R back to a M before it is ready. He agreed.

Right here.. you made a choice. You expressed it.. and it worked. Right here would be a focus point. Look at this circle.. and figure out how you got there.

Yesterday- Invited H to my place for lunch, worked on MC homework together, he went back to work, stopped back for ice cream with D after supper. We talked plans for a family vacation to DC. I'm anxious about that, asked him about getting 2 hotel rooms, he didn't see why.. ugg.

So.. what you did.. lasted 2 days. Then you threw in some more of the same.. and it got you some "Drama". Hmmmm.

Why did you talk about a family vacation.. if you were not ready to make it look like one? I got ya.. Why Now? See.. I told you someone could see it as soon as you thought it.

Keep your head up Bridgestone... it is the only way you can see whats coming.