don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you to do one thing or another. You wrote this:
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Told me that he was checking into refinancing his debt but because his name was on the title to the house he couldn't but they would be willing to talk with me. WTF?? Well my name is on the title too, don't know what he is thinking. L said that the way everything was worded he wouldn't have any rights to the house if I sold it etc, but it also means that I am responsible for it entirely on my own. Did H get a dose of reality or is he just hoping that I will refinance the amount I am responsible for into the mortgage so that he can get me to pay more of his obligations? This man has lost it.
and I was simply responding to that. All I meant was that he can sign all the agreements the Ls want, but unless you refinance, his name will be on the mortgage and the banks will hold him legally responsible for that mortgage, which affects his credit rating and ability to get another loan. The only way to remove his name is by refinancing or selling the house.
Didn't mean to make you angry - I'll shut up now. lodo