Originally Posted By: buster80
well I received Divorce Remedy in the mail today. just made it through the first 130 pages. From all the posts I have read and the advice I have received on here already (THANK YOU) what I read in the book wasn't all new information or that surprising, but for the first month of our separation I could have really used the book. I pushed her away but constantly confronting her about our problems, telling her I loved her and missed her, and making every damn excuse under the sun to show up and be around her. things are different now; it's impossible for her to get a rise out of me, she is polite and civil (despite pending legal issues). I know change doesn't happen overnight or over days or weeks, but I have a better understanding of what I need to do to prepare myself to move on should that be the case. I know to leave her alone and stop calling. As Michelle states I am going to have to roll up my sleeves and do the lion's share. Funny how in order to do most of the work, I need to sit back and do nothing \:\) thanks again everyone. you are true saints.


And you thought we were just makin' all this stuff up . . . ;\)