Really upside down #2

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what reason do you think she's afraid of your reaction? Have you given her anything to fear in your reactions before?

what has worked in the past............

She has told me she doesn't want to hurt anyone. She said she wants there to be something.

Everyone I talk to says she is trying to find a way to get out of this without looking like the bad guy because it's so soon after getting married.

I'm trying not to agree with that sentiment, but I don't understand how a person can walk away, and say "we are just too different" when all it takes is understanding on HOW to communicate.

I'm certainly trying. I have not seen her efforts yet, and I'm looking high and low for them.

I'm sorry if I was blunt. I don't like to admit that I almost died because of my X, and it's difficult when someone is standing there blaming me for all of this.