Sues,

We all are here for you always, I do think that this site is a god send,because all of us can relate to one another in some way, and "talk" to each other without any judgments. That's a big big thing as far as i'm concerned. I think 80% of the time people don't reach out to their actual "friends" because of what they might think of them for staying and trying, lets face it, there are so many people out there that do just give up, but most of us on here are not those people. Its just hard to find actual people you can trust with this "information".

Ok,enough of my ramblings.

I am so glad you have your family, that's wonderful, truly. I would definately tried reaching out to your Fil. Im sure he would still love having a relationship with D4, and its wonderful of you to understand how important it is.

Your such a great person Sue, really you are.


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.