Oh man, h4u. You are probably feeling bad because you are trying to get RID of the OM and thoughts and talks of the OM and now you have to deal with it. It's not good, and as Puppy said, it is her mess, but she is coming back to you so don't forget where you guys are at.
I will be interested to hear how your talk goes tonight. Are you worried she may want to go back to the OM because he is divorcing for sure? Or, did she know this already?
