Ken's situation - Live-in WAW

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Thanks distressed. All the feedback I'm getting is helping.

I just did an hour session with my IC and it went pretty well. She's helping me with the obsession compulsion about the situation and waiting for the other shoe to drop.

I'm working on the detaching thing but finding it hard as hell because I have the habit of only focusing on the bad crap and discounting any of the good stuff.

You're right about the roller coaster ride. I've seen the in and pull away pattern over the past few months. I know she has to figure out what she wants and I have no control over her feelings or the sitch in general. I can only (mostly) control what I do and say and how I act and react...but it is hard as hell.

Letting go and detaching has never been easy for me throughout my life due to many issues, but it's what is imperetive for me to do right now.

Thanks again for the feedback.

Ken