Yes I have heard that before, I realize some of it was spew, but the tone was different then before, only time will tell. Either way it is what it is.
I understand they were examples, and all of them are hard things to deal with. In my 1st marriage I came home to my then W in bed with another man, I certainly respect the position of other people on here there is nothing easy about any of it. I am glad you have found that inner peace in yourself I know one day I will get there, you and others give me that hope.
I felt I owed that to the board...
I do have a woe is me problem as do I with assumption most of that is just being a pesimist I am working on it
I didn't let her bait me but at times I did defend myself. She told me to quit validating and just be honest, so I did just that it got to a point where I simply said you say you want mne to be honest and constructive but you are angry and upset and not in a frame of mind to listen and I will not argue with you. I said you have to do what you think is best for you, I think it best to just leave it there for now and said goodbye.
