Does she see a happy strong guy...or...an 'as if' guy with hidden anger on his face?
Along that line, check out the article I posted on NDSMHLP's thread. Interesting take on our spouses ability to "see" what is really going on inside of us.
My experience that the wandering spouse has an even more finely tuned "BS-meter."
Again, the importance of making this about YOU, and trying your best to disconnect yourself from the drama unfolding in her. You have to stay secure in who you are, and try to find the compassion for her at the same time.
Blessings,
bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
