Guys, would you break off this relationship -

[KarenMarieS]

I'll join you in that drink Lissie
and you are 100% correct.

Some of us chose to stay home w/ our children, it was a choice between us as parents. I at one point made more then my ex, I had been at my job much longer while he was finishing college- when our S was 5 we decided I would stay home. I was happy either way, staying home or cont. work as I loved my job.

Fast forward when ex left, I have found it very hard to get back in there, a lot changed in those years-
I remember talking to my S and wondering if I had made a big mistake staying home all those years, being there for him, being team mom, helping at school etc. He said he felt bad for my sit now as a result of what his father had done but he, for one is very proud and happy I was home for him, he knows he was lucky that I was able to do so. That made it worthwhile.

This has gone way off poor Scooters original question lol
but I cant abide reading replies from people who really have no clue and have not walked in someones shoes.