FWIW, if he is more worried about how it looked that you took him aside and told him how he made you feel, than how he made you feel then he is the one with the problem.
That was worth more than you could possibly know. I wish I had been able to come back with that when he said he can't trust me. I was expecting him to tell me he can't trust me because I snooped at his phone... I was NOT expecting this load of bull.
Thanks Sugar. We'll have to meet up soon. HUGS!
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence