she has informed me that she is filing for Divorce and it is over. In her mind she feels that I took advantage of her she trusted me with the finances and could have cared less about them as long as there was money in the account, not ever listening to me when I told her something needed to be done. This is something she says is unforgiveable because she feels stupid for not paying attention and that she cannot get past it.
Have you heard the term do not count your chickens until they hatch.Do not believe it until it happens. This is simply lashing out at you because of a bad situation and she knows she is partially to blame for it. Again, she lashes out at you because you are one she knows she can do it to.
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I can't imagine the pain that you are in, in some ways I agree I am better off then some and worse than others.
Brian, those things I pointed out where not all about me, they were situations of others on this board. I am no longer in pain, I figured things out about 6 months ago and am at peace with my decisions and actions. Actually, I believe that I am more at peace now than I have been in many years.
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We all experience different levels of how hard this is on all of us, I certainly meant no harm to anyone for expressing my feelings on this board, if I offend anyone I apologize, but I felt secure in venting my feelings here.
As far as I know Brian, there was no offense taken. My post, JSYK, was intended to tell you that you do not need to sit on a pity pot.
Let me tell you what else, finances will not cause a divorce, give her time to cool her jets and for goodness sakes do not respond to her nonsense of yelling and threatening. Wait till she gets her panties out of a knot before you discuss it with her. You don't need any confrontation.
