Thanks for sharing I always repect and accept your wisdom and opinions. I can't imagine the pain that you are in, in some ways I agree I am better off then some and worse than others.
As I knew in my mind once the financial situation reared it's ugly head that would be the end of it. As of today I have had 2 phone calls from her with her yelling at me and blaming me for the position we are in, not too mention countless spiteful emails from her.
With that being said, she has informed me that she is filing for Divorce and it is over. In her mind she feels that I took advantage of her she trusted me with the finances and could have cared less about them as long as there was money in the account, not ever listening to me when I told her something needed to be done. This is something she says is unforgiveable because she feels stupid for not paying attention and that she cannot get past it.
We all experience different levels of how hard this is on all of us, I certainly meant no harm to anyone for expressing my feelings on this board, if I offend anyone I apologize, but I felt secure in venting my feelings here.
