If I recall correctly, you are raising kids with no alimony and no child support. And you are managing D13 and a pregnant D with all sorts of abuse related issues. And you have a son that graduated from welding school. And I am sorry but I can't remember what your other son does.
And you do it with such a positive attitude.
I have a phenomimal amount of respect for you and how you manage your life. I started out with a relatively easier life b/c I really was not on my own till after my parents paid for my engineering degree.
My assistant reminds me a lot of your attitude. She supported her H and daughter while being pregnant - while her H was out of work. She is a high school graduate, only 28, and is head and shoulder above any assistant I have ever worked with. She has that same gritty determination.
I remember suitcase man. I am glad that he is gone.