Oh my brokenhearted. Thank you so much. I remember the raw pain, the hurt, the insomnia, everything. Its almost *too* painful to recall it, and I never want to be there again. If someone told me last summer I would feel so good this summer, I would have laughed. Time heals. Its just takes awhile!
I just hate that you are here.
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I keep trying to reason with a crazy person, whats the point in that?
I kept doing it too. We try because we can see how irrational they are being, but they can't see it. I finally shut up about the house and money and sure enough, H came around and saw my reasonings, only after I shut it! And don't worry about not having everything settled before mediation, they are there to help work things out.
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and now here I am able to laugh and enjoy life again
That makes me so happy!!! Your H will go crazy seeing you truly happy. No more faking it for us, its real. Yes, the divorce still hurts a lot, but we know now it won't kill us. I really thought it would at one point.
(((brokenhearted)))
And yes, we'll have to hit the Landing. Hope11 and I have done that, on Mardi Gras even!!! We actually met up with OW's H for a drink. So funny!!