so it's been a week, and my wife just emailed the mediator(i got a copy too) asking for advice about drawing up separation papers since I haven't agreed to a divorce yet. she asked for any advice. I mentioned to wife "i'm confused as there's no legal separation in PA yet she wants papers drawn up" she said there's still a separation agreement that can be drawn up (note the word AGREEMENT)
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF