It does help in a sad way to know that we are not alone in this. We all will get to better places if we just keep ourselves busy and focus on the blessings at hand.
My L called and said he knew I had a couple of questions. I asked him about the verbage and also about the money thing. H had deposited what he normally does but his L wants to use that to make a reduction for this next pay period. I see where he is coming from but really if he wants to squabble over that then he can reimburse me for the bills I have paid this month so far that are his "responsibility".
When I mentioned it to H last week he said well those are your bills. Funny, I thought this man had a L that explained that we really can't afford this, you will be paying 70% of the debt and pay support and maintenance(like I am a car or something!) He is the one that wants to plow ahead knowing that I am not doing the status qou thing. He is going to be in some serious hurt when reality hits him in the face. Oh and did I mention he owes an additional $1500 to my lawyer. When all is said and done $8000 will be down the drain. H took out a loan to pay for his attorney, borrowed $500 from his parents for the first attorney and now who knows where he is going to get that.
The alarm is going off but he can't figure out how to work it to shut it off!
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
