New Horse......Old H....

[Truelove]

Hi a new 2moro,
I hope you had a lovely week-end and that the weather was good for riding. Have a lovely week. (((HUGS)))

[happyincognito]

so you have decided to settle then. how very sad for you.

[MidwesternGirl]

so you have decided to settle then. how very sad for you.

Maybe this is the way it has to be for now. We don't know everything that goes on in a person's life but it is not fair to judge a person by how they wish to deal with a situation that is truly their own.

It might be sad to some, but for others, they might just be thankful that their spouse is at home for now. We really don't know all there is to know about Patti's H and who knows, maybe he really does have a medical condition and is ashamed. We just don't know.

[frank_D]

so you have decided to settle then. how very sad for you.

How sad for you that you have to attack others to feel good about yourself.

[MidwesternGirl]

Thanks, Frank.

I know Patti is a very nice person and she does not deserve this. She has enough on her plate right now.

[frank_D]

Thanks, Frank.

I know Patti is a very nice person and she does not deserve this. She has enough on her plate right now.

'happy' shows up once a month and hides behind his mantra of "I tell it like it is" in order to justify his abusive posts.

[happyincognito]

I never said she was not a nice person. she has settled because she is afriad to live a life without her husband. she deserves better then this and you know it. I am not being abusive. you can make all of the excuses you want but one day all of the horses and all of the dogs will not be able to replace the thing she is missing from her life. that would be someone to love her as much as she loves him. BS away Frank, and look at your own life before offering advice.

[frank_D]

I never said she was not a nice person. she has settled because she is afriad to live a life without her husband. she deserves better then this and you know it. I am not being abusive. you can make all of the excuses you want but one day all of the horses and all of the dogs will not be able to replace the thing she is missing from her life. that would be someone to love her as much as she loves him.

So why didn't you take the TIME to say that instead of

so you have decided to settle then. how very sad for you.

Well? Because you care? About what? Apparently not about someones feelings who you don't know.

BS away Frank, and look at your own life before offering advice.

I didn't offer advice to her, and neither did you, you offered her judgement and a mean comment. No advice.


Take your 'BS' somewhere else. Just because you went through your own MLC and somehow, with this arrogant attitude your W and you are still together. I imagine you treat her better than you treat the strangers on this board. Or maybe she 'settled'?

[phoenyx]

so you have decided to settle then. how very sad for you.

dude, be nice, your being a jerk, find somewhere else to unload your anger. come here to help, not hurt

I never said she was not a nice person. she has settled because she is afriad to live a life without her husband. she deserves better then this and you know it. I am not being abusive. you can make all of the excuses you want but one day all of the horses and all of the dogs will not be able to replace the thing she is missing from her life. that would be someone to love her as much as she loves him. BS away Frank, and look at your own life before offering advice.

find what your missing in your life before attacking other peoples views and opinions(especially those that are based on past experiences) BS away happy, and look at your own life before jumping on someones back to raise your own self esteem

[ACJ]

Patti I lost track of you for a while. I'm glad the OW is finally out of Hs flat. It's also good news about your horses.

Just one question. Do you and your H have a hobby you do together?