Hey thanks for the posts everyone. I guess I should have read them this morning but had to rush off to work. My wife called me up at work and wanted to know if my offer still stood about being there for her. I said sure what do you need? She asked if I would come to court with her because she was scared. Worked out fine because our network was down at work and I had just sat around for 4 hours before the boss told us to go home. So I told the wife I would meet her there. Everything was fine she was nervous as heck and we just talked and tried to get her through it.
She does have to spend 48 hours in jail which is no biggie I told her, I spent 30 days and it was a cake walk, just tried to reassure her everything was fine and it is not the end of the world. After court I took her out to eat and then said goodbye, nothing to major but I felt good about being there for her, not to help out sitch but being there as a friend! Hopefully this was not a bad thing to do? But I do know she was somewhat relieved that I was there with her.
